Sticking Together

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The memorial left for victims of the Library Gardens apartment balcony collapse

We’re Irish. We stick together, when we encounter each other far from home. Back in Ireland, we might have all sorts of issues with each other, as any family does, from time to time. Abroad, it’s different. Abroad, we’re a family. The affinities are clearer. They’re low-key important.

Joseph O’Connor, Lament For Berkeley, Sunday Independent

Alternatively…

Francis J writes:

I really hope it has changed but In my experience no one treats the Irish worse abroad than the Irish….

Pic: Jeff Chiu

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33 thoughts on “Sticking Together

  1. tony

    You’re so right. The worst foreman is an irish one. The rudest barman is an irish one. I’d say Joseph O Connor is morto at that tripe. Enough. Let them rest.

    1. Pale Blue Dot Cotton

      Ha. Too true. Going to Ibiza last year someone told me not to buy anything off an Irish person. They weren’t wrong.

  2. Malta

    Who is Francis J? Did it take him three days to come up with this comment?

    Basically, what I’m saying here is what the fupping fupp is this tripe, Broadsheet?

  3. Quint

    O’Connor needs to remove the rose-tinted glasses. I think he’s essentially wrong. I avoided the Irish as much as possible when I lived in Australia and never really felt that sense of unity he writes about. In fact, A sense of unity can be found with any nationality abroad if you’re open to it.

  4. Small Wonder

    It’s almost as if neither of those sweeping generalisations is completely true.

    1. Someone

      I was about to write something prolonged and descriptive of both my positive and negative experiences abroad with my fellow countrymen.

      But then you came along before me and ruined it by being more succinct.

  5. Rat boy

    Article is pure trash.
    “To be 21 and with your pals. Is there any better feeling? To look out at the stars, and to think, for one fleeting, miraculous moment, that you could stir them around in the sky.”

  6. Joe the Lion

    The Irish in New York do look out for each other in a spirit of solidarity. None of you on this little website appear to have got out of this country much

    1. rotide

      Most of the people posting on this little website live outside of Ireland as far as i can see

      1. Joe the Lion

        Maybe but that’s not what I mean
        They’re still stuck in peasant Paddy mindset

      1. Joe the Lion

        Gobspoos

        It’s that defensive posture as automatically reacting to criticism from which the hunched peasant image emanates

    2. Quint

      Joe, you live in New York, where practically every Irish person that’s ever lived has either worked in or visited. Come back to me when you’re hanging with the locals in Timbuktu.

  7. nellyb

    It’s not unique to Irish. Some expats feel they must compete with other expats. End up socially excluded though.

  8. JunkFace

    Patriotism is for idiots! It makes no logical sense. Everyone falls out of a vagina somewhere, we’re just lucky to be from a country without horrible poverty and war.

    1. Nice Anne (Dammit)

      everyone falls out of a vagina somewhere

      Um…. don’t actually know where to start with this statement.

  9. Colin

    Generally avoid the Irish when I’m abroad. We have a terrible, terrible rep in most countries. We’re generally lazy, don’t show up to work and when we do we are generally binned from the night before. I got this viewpoint from many business owners all over America on my J1 and my professional career. I was warned not to drink and drive in Austria by a concierge who ran out to me as I went to drive into town (Having not and having no intention to drink) We’re a mess of a nation but cover it up with ‘the craic’. NYC Times hit the nail on the head in my opinion, we just can’t look at the reality of the situation we have created abroad and in ourselves.

    1. Quint

      Avoided the Irish when I was in Oz. They were and are an embarrassment. Drink, drink, drink….

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