
Andrew Galvin, poet and activist
On the thorny question of a father’s rights during pregnancy.
Andrew Galvin writes:
Dear Men,
Some of you are confused as to whether or not you have the right to force a woman whose egg your sperm has fertilised to either terminate the pregnancy against her will or carry the pregnancy against her will as the case may be. Let’s see if I can help.
No.
No you don’t.
And it’s awful to even think you can.
Once you’ve ejaculated, your agency ends with regard to having a say either way about any pregnancy.
Why is that?
Because…
A) After ejaculation, literally every other aspect of making a baby happens in and to another person’s body.
B) Forcing a woman to carry a pregnancy against her will and forcing a woman to terminate a pregnancy against her will both fall under the legal definition of torture.
But don’t worry, this does not diminish your rights or choices. Here’s how:
If you DON’T want a termination then your fool-proof guaranteed way to ensure that is to exercise your infinite, pre-ejaculation agency and choose not to ejaculate into a vagina.
Crazy, I know but it works 100% of the time, all the time.
If you DO want a termination and the woman involved doesn’t the exact same applies. Your last chance to make that choice is BEFORE you ejaculate.
So, make it then; in that glorious time of infinite, pre-ejaculation agency, Instead of thinking you can force a termination on someone who doesn’t want one later down the line….
FIGHT!
A Fertilised Egg Is Not A Contract (Andrew Galvin)